My child has been diagnosed - what do I do now?
The prognosis for autism is a complicated and lifelong affair, and having support goes a long way.
Medication?
Due to the high rates of comorbidity for those with autism, many sufferers become reliant on medication such as antidepressants, stimulants and more. These tend to lead to unpredictable changes in behaviour, where one may seem like an entirely different person. Children, or even adults, with autism often experience significant changes during puberty and while on medication. The reasons behind such changes are unclear. Parents or caregivers must speak with a psychiatrist or paediatrician and clarify any concerns before allowing their child to go on medication.
The Action Plan
Ultimately, as parents and caregivers, focus on being curious, learn from credible sources, and plan well. Find out the options that society has available for the special child and their needs. These include:
Collaborating and consulting with paediatricians, child psychologists, early intervention centres, educators and schools
Find out how to curate a conducive home routine or structure
In an arduous journey towards achieving some degree of independence or functioning, set small goals and celebrate little successes (your own, and your child’s). Focus on discovering your child’s strengths as they grow - they surely have them, even though this will take time to develop.
This path is often incredibly frightening and at times disheartening, especially when the end appears so unclear. We know, you’re doing your best.
In difficult moments, pause, breathe, and make sure you’re taking care of yourself. Sometimes, this may mean taking a bit of time to cry it out, express our emotions, and direct ourselves to let go of what cannot be controlled or changed.
